A year ago our Prophet, President Russell M. Nelson taught us that personal conflicts of the heart, home and life must end, during his Sunday morning remarks at April 2022 general conference.
“My call today, dear brothers and sisters, is to end the conflicts that are raging in your heart, your home and your life,” he said. “Bury any and all inclinations to hurt others.”
President Nelson gave examples of tempers, hurtful language or resentment toward others in reminding his audience that the Savior commanded His followers to both turn the other cheek and love their enemies.
Even when contentious feelings appear to be justifiable, he said, the Savior commanded that all individuals should forgive one another.
“I know what I’m suggesting is not easy,” he said. “But followers of Jesus Christ should set the example for all the world to follow.”
President Nelson’s plea was specific and personal for every individual.
“I plead with you to do all you can to end personal conflicts that are currently raging in your hearts and in your lives.”
Here are some tips on how to end personal conflicts:
- Communication: It is important to be able to communicate effectively with the person you are in conflict with. This means being able to listen to their point of view, express your own feelings, and find common ground.
- Forgiveness: Forgiveness is essential for healing and moving on from conflict. It is important to be able to forgive yourself and the other person for any wrongs that have been done.
- Acceptance: Sometimes, it is necessary to accept that you will not always see eye to eye with the other person. This does not mean that you have to agree with them, but it does mean that you need to respect their right to their own opinion.
- Compromise: In some cases, it may be necessary to compromise in order to resolve a conflict. This means being willing to give up something in order to reach a solution that is acceptable to both parties.
- Professional help: If you are struggling to resolve a conflict on your own, it may be helpful to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide you with tools and support to help you resolve the conflict in a healthy way.
It’s important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all solution to ending personal conflicts. The best approach will vary depending on the specific situation and the people involved. However, by following the tips above, you can increase your chances of resolving conflict in a way that is healthy and productive.